I once saw a hula hooping woman. She was standing in her yard one evening, hips swaying back and forth, watching the stars and humming quietly. I don’t know why she was doing that, but I thought she looked very content.
People like that who seem so divorced from public expectation are plugged into a higher power. They have stopped responding to the pressures of others and instead follow a higher path.
You can do this too. Hula hoop not required. Read more about how important state of mind really is in my blog, “A Mind Is a Terrible Thing to Waste.”